The ongoing trial of James Craig, a Colorado dentist accused of poisoning his wife instead of pursuing a divorce, is deeply unsettling. It also highlights a critical truth in family law. When people avoid legal processes out of fear, image concerns, or emotional pressure, the consequences can escalate in harmful ways.
This case is an extreme example of what can happen when someone feels trapped in a relationship and sees no clear way out. While most family conflicts do not result in violence, the emotional toll of delay, silence, and control can have lasting effects. Many people hesitate to take action because they are unsure whether their situation is “serious enough” to involve legal help. The truth is, any pattern of fear, manipulation, or uncertainty deserves attention.
“People often wait too long to seek help because they think things have to be worse before they act. The truth is, early legal guidance can prevent situations from spiraling. You don’t need to be in crisis to ask questions and protect your future.”
— Andy Haugen, Family Law Attorney at Heimerl & Lammers
At Heimerl & Lammers, we work with clients who are navigating complex, high-conflict, or emotionally charged family dynamics. Legal support is not just about filing paperwork. It is about creating structure, protecting rights, and helping people move forward with confidence. Whether the concern involves emotional pressure, financial control, parenting challenges, or personal safety, taking the first step toward clarity is essential.
Our approach is grounded in care, discretion, and practical planning. We help clients make informed decisions before conflict escalates. Silence and indecision often make things worse. Legal guidance can create a stable foundation for what comes next.
Heimerl & Lammers provides experienced representation in divorce, custody, protection orders, and post-decree matters. If you or someone you know is facing a difficult family situation, we encourage you to reach out. There are always options. You do not have to navigate them alone.
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Original case coverage: Star Tribune – July 29, 2025
